The time I spend with my family is precious to me. I cherish the cuddle time I have with Peter and the love and support I receive from those around me. It is a true blessing to be loved this much. :)
I love my group of friends, whom I see so little of, but think of so often. I have always been a firm believer that we have people come into our lives for a reason. When we need them the most and sometimes because they will be there WHEN we need them the most. I have a lot of friends, some whom I consider GREAT, CLOSE friends and others who are friends that I will have forever, for we have a common bond. Some of these friends are not an active part of my daily life, and others are. I have always been one to make friends easily, and have great friendships along the way, but it seems as though the more time that goes on, we drift apart from the everyday chats, get togethers, and so forth. I look at my husband and see that his group of friends is the same since HS, some of them even since grade school. How I envy that, and they all have known each other for a very long time. Never forget that you are in my heart and mind even though I may have not spoken to you lately. Most of the ladies whom I consider to be closest to me, are because we shared some big part of my life, or theirs. A first baby, or their first baby in MKE, a common calling in church, an activity, my endowments, college, a job, roommates, high school, drama group. Whatever it, was brought us together. I think fondly of those moments and miss those people who have been such an important part of my life. Now, we have moved far away from each other. Some to OR, FL, MN, and others just across town, or to another ward. I miss our long talks and those special moments. Now, more of those people will be leaving WI. They may be going to CO, AZ, or just another city in WI. I will miss them and their smiles, their hugs when greeting me. I know that they too will think of me and the times they have had while here. I know that some of them I will hear from at Christmas only and others I will talk to more often. I also know that there maybe a few trips to visit along the way too. And that makes me happy. I know that as we go our separate ways that I will always have a little piece of them with me. I know that they have encouraged me, supported me, laughed and cried with me. I can only hope, selfishly, that they take a mini piece of me with them. It is never easy to say goodbye, but I know that I will see those special women once again.
Summer is approaching and with that our family vacation is coming. I am so excited for this summer as we are planning a trip to NC to have a mini reunion with my Aunt and her kids' families. Already we are talking about packing, and meals, and all the preparations that go into making a vacation run smoothly. I am most excited about the memories we will make and the savor. I'm sure every family has things that stick through out many years, maybe it's the same old dress that someone wore, or the big floppy hat that was handed down. We have words. When my brother was very little, he would say things like "hank you, hank you berry much" which is said often when with family now. When I was younger and one of my brother's friends called I slipped and said that "Scothew" was on the phone - which was a combo of their names. When P was starting to talk he would say "Nar" when asking for help. So now when we are in a tricky spot and need an extra set of hands we shout "Nar" and quickly someone comes to our aide. I'm sure you have stories like that as well. I am looking forward to not only making memories, but expanding my vocab as well, with the "Nar" (help) of my family.
With all the hype of Pinterest, I too have caught the bug and saw this rather cute post from another mom's blog (werdyab.com). Thought I'd share as it goes right along with my memory making theme. enjoy
hugs, A
20 Things a Mother Should Tell Her Son
2. Play a sport. It will teach you how to win honorably, lose gracefully, respect authority, work with others, manage your time and stay out of trouble. And maybe even throw or catch.
3. Use careful aim when you pee. Somebody's got to clean that up, you know.
4. Save money when you're young because you're going to need it some day.
5. Allow me to introduce you to the dishwasher, oven, washing machine, iron, vacuum, mop and broom. Now please go use them.
6. Pray and be a spiritual leader.
7. Don't ever be a bully and don't ever start a fight, but if some idiot clocks you, please defend yourself.
8. Your knowledge and education is something that nobody can take away from you.
9. Treat women kindly. Forever is a long time to live alone and it's even longer to live with somebody who hates your guts.
10. Take pride in your appearance.
11. Be strong and tender at the same time.
12. A woman can do everything that you can do. This includes her having a successful career and you changing diapers at 3 A.M. Mutual respect is the key to a good relationship.
13. "Yes ma'am" and "yes sir" still go a long way.
14. The reason that they're called "private parts" is because they're "private". Please do not scratch them in public.
15. Peer pressure is a scary thing. Be a good leader and others will follow.
16. Bringing her flowers for no reason is always a good idea.
17. Be patriotic.
18. Potty humor isn't the only thing that's humorous.
19. Please choose your spouse wisely. My daughter-in-law will be the gatekeeper for me spending time with you and my grandchildren.
20. Remember to call your mother because I might be missing you.
